tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4260185854718116193.post7293154360156297888..comments2022-11-07T02:57:06.521-06:00Comments on My happy life...Mom.Wife.Me: Hello, My name is Dana and I am of a dying breedAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02546787165593933718noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4260185854718116193.post-8322198147020995692009-10-02T10:06:16.303-05:002009-10-02T10:06:16.303-05:00You are so right! People are into taking these da...You are so right! People are into taking these days not giving. Also, it is important to really know what you want and evaluate why do you want it. That is very important. Also, people marry for the wrong reasons sometimes so of course they are going to have a messed up marriage. LOL. I also know people who have done unthinkable things to the person that they married/loved. It was sad. I also believe people should take it back to the ol'school.Urban Homeschoolers Of Columbushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09220617731921221460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4260185854718116193.post-33474038739135930272009-10-02T09:10:19.789-05:002009-10-02T09:10:19.789-05:00In these days and times, its hard not to fall for ...In these days and times, its hard not to fall for the oki dok. People are so into what they can get. They forget about what can the offer. I am telling you people need to go back to the old days. Not all of the old fashion ways were bad. <br /><br />I've seen some of the shit people (Yep I said shit) people have done to one another in a relationship. Scandalous outrageous mess. I also can see why people are so seperate in a marriage but that leads me back to thinking are we looking for the right traits in a mate. <br /><br />I mean you cant want a thug and not think he is going to be a thug in the true essence of the word. If that makes any sense. Some of us need to write down what's important to us in a mate. Then evaluate if those traits you are willing to provide back. Like he got to be hard working. Do you get up everyday and make that hustle work for you. Have standards when dating but be sure that those same standards you live by. I met a lot of women that say they have to have a B.M.W. but they barely a Kia.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02546787165593933718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4260185854718116193.post-79219526820709297312009-10-02T07:09:48.243-05:002009-10-02T07:09:48.243-05:00This is a good topic. Even for me, it is hard bec...This is a good topic. Even for me, it is hard because I was telling my mom that I honestly don't know what I would do in marriage. But I like that part that you said that the person you "marry will hurt you once or twice not because they want to but because they are human", that was a good point. Unfortunatley not many men and women don't think like you and your hubby. For us single people it is hard to find someone that is in it for the long haul, most people will dip out on the first signs of hardship or trouble. That is why I hope my husband will be a strong and and vice versus. Since I have never been married. So many people today do not understand the meaning a value of marriage. Most just think it is a legal thing or walking to the alter. However, most don't understand that IT DOES MEAN TWO BECOME ONE. Most feel like they should protect themselves. And even beyond the marriage realm it just seems people lack trust period, so when entering into a marriage they will not be able to trust their partner. I really like this subject.Urban Homeschoolers Of Columbushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09220617731921221460noreply@blogger.com